Secretum a submissive training guide or a Dominant guide?

We already have lots of sites explaining how to train submissive or slave online! That’s true! But how many of them speak with a real experience on the topic? Submissive training is not a game! Actually, it is… But you should understand that a game with responsibility. You need to know what you are doing so you will get a good reputation. Because yeah… If you screw up, she will say it to other subs. They will know that you are not to be trusted and you won’t get lot of submissive partners. So no they are not fucking robot you can trash after use.

How should it be done?

Bdsm is not just how to use a flogger, wax or a paddle. The relation between a submissive and it Master or Dom in primarily a cerebral experience. That means the submissive training is the building block of the relation. You are not training her to fetch you a beer in the fridge. You are training her to strengthen a bound between both of you.

What’s the goal of the site?

The site intends to be a Dominant guide and a submissive guide. It intent to also act as a dominant guide because of the disaster caused by Fifty Shades of Grey.

  • ​What the problem?

A lot of new dominants are popping around the Internet. They usually consider themselves as a master capable of dealing with the most stubborn submissive because they are rigid and strong. That’s just pure bullshit! A Dominant is not one that will force a submissive. A good Dom is one that will take time to learn the psychology of is submissive and take care of her. He will work two times harder than her to be the best at what he wants to make her learn and grow. A dominant job is not to break the submissive, but make her strong as steel in the submissive lifestyle that proper submissive training.

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Why the name Secretum?

Have you ever trough of secret room where you can place stuff judge controversial? Well the secretum was a secret room in the British museum for that specific purpose in 1865. The goal of the room was to preserve content historically controversial or deem obscene according to the standard of the era.

We are not in 1865 but some subjects are judged too “hot” for Facebook, Twitter and others more mainstream website. That’s why I created this site. The goal is not to create some shocking post, but to keep an open space for a real discussion.